When do I let them use the restroom?
I try to plan out in advance appropriate times when I will let me students use the restroom. I understand that sometimes when you gotta go, you gotta go, but I feel like in my experience most kids can get into a pretty good routine of when they go. I think it's super important to have an idea in your head of when you will and will not allow your students to leave the classroom and miss out on that sacred learning time. Otherwise, when a student asks to leave, you might puzzle over it for a second, make a snap decision, and then change your mind later and not let another student go during that same subject. With my 5th graders especially, being "fair" was an incredibly important part of earning their trust, so I really tried to be consistent. Here are my typical rules
- Times you MAY use the restroom: First thing in the morning when you get in/during announcements, during any transition time, during read aloud, during writing time (after the Writing Workshop mini-lesson), before and after lunch, before and after specials, during math ONLY if you are working independently (ex. guided math time but not working with the teacher)
- Times you MAY NEVER use the restroom: During guided reading (even if you are not in a group!), during guided math groups, during ANY full group instruction (Writing Workshop mini-lesson, Math shared lesson, Science/SS lesson, etc.), during Intervention Block
How many times will I let them go?
Obviously some students have special needs when it comes to this type of thing, but I try very hard to stick to letting students go once in the morning and once in the afternoon. They are also allowed to go at lunch time, so combined I feel that is PLENTY of opportunities. Setting this expectation up front helps keep those few squirrly rascals from abusing restroom breaks!
How will they let me know when they need to go?
My pet peeve is students raising their hand when I'm teaching a lesson, me calling on them thinking they have a question, and them saying, "Can I use the restroom?" UGH. Lesson derailed, and my answer would of course be no in that situation anyways! Instead, I use hand signals for both Restroom and Drink.
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| Hand Symbols and other reminder signs are posted in my room |
Students know to hold up 1 finger when they need to use the restroom and 2 fingers when they would like to get a drink. That way, no matter what I am doing, I can glance over, make eye contact, and simply nod my head yes or shake my head no. Students know that if I say "no," it's either because someone is already there or it's not an appropriate time (i.e. NOT because I simply don't like them and want to say no...), and that they can ask again in a few minutes. This way, even during a guided math group, I can send a student to the restroom from across the room without breaking my teaching stride. Alternatively, you can teach kids the sign language signs for "toilet" and "water" which are super simple. Many teachers in my building use these.
How many students will I allow at a time? How will I enforce this?
I allow one boy and one girl to be out of the room at a time--period. However, since I am constantly being pulled in 1000 different directions during the day, I can almost NEVER remember who is gone--even if I literally JUST gave them permission. It's almost sad, really. Early onset, school-induced dementia? Tell me I'm not the only one! Anyways, last year I tried something new to keep this straight, and I will NEVER go back! Instead of restroom "passes" that the kids carry with them to the restroom (and that inevitably become a disgusting, germy mess--gross.), I have restroom beanie babies.
The elephant is for boys and the pig is for girls. They live on a counter or file cabinet all day, and when a student goes to the restroom, they grab the beanie baby and place it on their desk. That way, with a quick glance I know which student is gone. Also, I know whether or not to allow a student to go. Ex. If Sally raises one finger, I glance over to the counter, see that the pink pig is not in its home, point to the empty space, and shake my head "No." Sally knows that this means another girl is in the restroom, and that she needs to wait until the pig is back to ask again. Most kids know to check the beanie baby home before they even ask to use the restroom, knowing only to ask when they are available. Next year I will model and practice this piece of the system a little more! I absolutely LOVE this routine, and I will never go back to another pass system.
Will I have students sign out? How will I enforce this?
I keep my sign out sheets on a clipboard right outside my door. I have used a desk for this in the past, and last year I switched midway through to an extra book shelf (we stored our LRC "return" and "renew" bins on the shelf too). I copy a huge stack of sheets at the beginning of the year, clip a ton on at a time, and tie a pen to the clipboard with yarn or string. I also keep a small digital clock out there because students cannot see our classroom clock from the room. (This also solves the problem for needy students who may still struggle with telling time. Of course I want them to learn, but I also want them to sign out correctly!) I also keep a little paper tray next to the clip board for the filled sheets to be placed in.
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| Classroom Sign Out |
In the past, I really struggled with enforcing this procedure. I'd get super frustrated when the students wouldn't sign out or wouldn't sign out correctly. I'd complain about it. "Why can't they just do it right???" Then I realized that, like EVERYTHING else in the classroom, instead of blaming the students, I needed to reflect on what I needed to do differently. First, I needed to set my expectations more clearly. I explain to the students on the first day why signing out is so important--if we have a fire or code red or tornado drill, I need to be able to check the sheet and know who is out of the room. Knowing why they do something is really important, especially for older kids.
| Sign Out Sheets |
Then, I model EXPLICITLY what I expect. I have students model for the class the correct and incorrect ways to ask to use the restroom and sign out. I make sheets for the kids to practice signing out on. Seems like overkill, but it ALWAYS helps! I also periodically glance at the sheets to check that students are signing out correctly. If they're not, they get to practice signing in and out correctly at lunch for 5 minutes. That usually does the trick! It may seem like a lot of work for something little, but like I said, with my memory, there is no way I will remember which kid is in the restroom if we have a fire or lock down unless I have it written down. Better safe than sorry, right?
Phew! I think that covers everything! It seems like so much information about something so small, but I really truly believe that getting little procedures and routines like this running smoothly can make all the difference from a management standpoint in the classroom! Getting this procedure running like a well-oiled machine gives us the time and energy to focus on what matters--the teaching!!!
Tell me about your classroom restroom routines!













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